- 8 Gennaio 2014 - Le risposte di Tia ai messaggi di Andreas
Prima risposta:
www.mediafire.com/?m59bptlz1m5g0euTia: Hi Andreas, I understood what is going on and now I can see even the messages
so I'm going to read them out loud:
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Hi ladies, tolerance is ok, no doubt"
I suppose you refer to what I said at the beginning,
but when I meant tolerance I meant from each and every side tolerance.
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but everything has its limits"
Fair enough, as I said!
The end of my freedom is at the top of your nose!"
it gets unbearable"
You know sometimes they say that when we get too sensitive about a topic
it is something that we have not dealt with in ourselves yet.
so "
the way of doing is what counts"
I agree with you, that's true, definitely,
and that is something I've been trying to fight for all these years here that...
something can be really exciting when it's done in a very elegant way.
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Behind every acting is a message"
Fair enough, when you send messages all the time it's communication all the way.
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an invisible message which is transmitted.
Last monday night was exactly the example when it exceeded all ways of acceptance."
Whose ways Andreas?
I mean, if we want to be tolerant then we should understand that my way is important for me,
and the other person's way is important for him.
Also even if I don't understand it and I don't accept it
I still should somehow understand it because it's not reflecting on me."
so it cannot be that 0.01% destroy every night with their dirt.
hard, harder, hardest-long, longer, longest was the motto"
I think that it's quite OK. I completely agree with you.
But then isn't each and every one of us this 0.01?
Or maybe we should add a little bit more zeroes to the equation?
So "
no respectfulness of anyone. Now it got the red card and that's so right! Hugs"
I was trying to explain today to
my students that there is no such thing as right.
It is a word that we have invented just to make the world a little bit more simple
and that we can live somehow in harmony.
But as long as one of us is insisting on his righteousness we have a problem.
And the other thing that maybe kind of slipped out of the way what I was saying in the beginning
is from a strictly psychological point of view:
every act that is interfering in somebody's private space and personality is an act of violence, an aggression,
even if I try to help someone I'm already crossing the line of his private space.So think a little bit about that.
I hope you understand why I'm saying all of this,
I kind of try to understand your position and it's OK,
we all have ours, but at the end they all matter,
and
by doing what you did you also become one of those 0.01%.
Please excuse me, there's no tolerance here!Nella sua seconda risposta mi è sembrato che abbia usato un linguaggio più involuto, comunque ecco la seconda parte e la conclusione.
www.mediafire.com/?7252p8buey3vyviTia:. . .
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... and I understand you have this personal fight with that guy,
but you transferred it to... some of us.
And this is what concerns me and makes me worry a bit,
because as long as you are fighting for humanity, and equal respect
and being human and gentle, and not hurting each other,
please allow me to tell you that I've been hurt by you,
even though you didn't want to do it,
so... maybe it's a bit acceptable when somebody realizes his wishes,
and finds this delicate way to get it because afterall is... if nobody is suffering
there is nothing we should worry about.
That is my point!
And I know you are an intelligent man
. . .
. . .
and understand that...
aggressive behaviour can be everything with you,
as long it is connected with somebody else.
Please, try to get some more information about yourself before you judge.
That's all I'm asking, trying not to be judgmental.
Kisses and
calm down now, you've got your victory!
All the consequences are for us,
but don't worry, you've got your victory!
